I hate dudes.

[Julie]

I'm happy that at age 27, dude thinks it is acceptable to break up by just not talking anymore.

That might have worked in high school when he was kicking over my chair in math class.

I guess I should be happy not to be dating such a little bitch, huh.

But seriously. Douchebag.

[ama6730]

If you can't beat them at the game, join them. Just be single. Love 'em and leave 'em! :D

[Julie]

If you can't beat them at the game, join them. Just be single. Love 'em and leave 'em! :D

Well, yeah that's more my style. I've been single for like 3 years. But I actually liked him, which NEVER happens.

Ew I even had to move back with my parents in order to be with him (long story).

[tobias]

Never let your guard down for anyone.

[Jen]

Read this book: I Hope They Serve Beer in Hell

I agree with Ama: If you can't beat 'em, join 'em.
If you haven't already read it, also read: He's Just Not That Into You

[ATT]

Droolie that sucks but atleast your IGGLES won today lol

[Kimberly]

Sorry Droolie, they don't change at age 38 either (trust me).

[Julie]

Droolie that sucks but atleast your IGGLES won today lol

hahaha I actually sat and watched that game with my family. So weird. I think it would be cool if they won the Super Bowl so we have 2 awesome teams.

I never really followed any sports before.

[Britt]

Yeah just have a boytoy and guyfriends no need for a boyfriend highly overrated! lol unless he is perfect and then if he is perfect he is prob in military, married, or gay.

[Julie]

Yeah just have a boytoy and guyfriends no need for a boyfriend highly overrated! lol unless he is perfect and then if he is perfect he is prob in military, married, or gay.

haha I totally "dated" a gay guy once. He thought I didn't know. It was the most hilarious two months of my life.

[Britt]

When I was in Europe my best friend and I use to go man hunting together it sucked when he would pull more #s than me lol

[Lucky7]

Oh Droolie...where have I been all your life???

But seriously...as Neil Sedeka originally wrote and The Carpenters made famous: "Breaking Up Is Hard To Do"...not that I'm cutting your guy in question any slack. While it is hard to do, it needs to be done. The last break up I can remember (lol) was quite mature, if I do say so myself.

After the final straw (which shouldn't have been the final straw, it should have been over before this incident), and I said "I can't do this anymore", the next day, I went over her place, picked up whatever I had there, and said good bye.

The single life has been pretty good so far!

[Brenda]

Boytoys are a good thing!!! I CHOOSE not to have a boyfriend. Been there, done that---for a decade. Got fed up with being kept on a tight leash--not being able to do ANYTHING. So, I had enough--kicked him to the curb & am having the time of my life (better late than never)! Nothing wrong with turning the tables & being the PLAYER!! ha ha!

[Britt]

Playa play!

[Julie]

The whole "boytoy" thing or whatever got old. I wanted to have my cake and eat it too.

Or whatever.

[Britt]

Well if I ever decide to get into a relationship I am going to check their credit report first! You can find out alot about a person ie. if they are responsible, if they can manage their finances or if they live on credit etc.....

[tobias]

That goes both ways. Don't forget to investigate the family too.

[Britt]

Will do!

[Kimberly]

Why go the through the trouble of a background check? If you obviously don't trust them to give you honest anwers, why would you date them?

[Lisa]

Why go the through the trouble of a background check? If you obviously don't trust them to give you honest anwers, why would you date them?

I couldn't agree more! Well said Ej.

[Britt]

That is prob why I am single hu....:confused:

[Lisa]

Mrs. Gomez, is that you?

[ama6730]

haha, that's hilarious!

[Mealer]

I feel like I'm sailing in some uncharted waters over here... haha but not all guys are horrible! Now, I must run :cool:

[Kimberly]

I feel like I'm sailing in some uncharted waters over here... haha but not all guys are horrible! Now, I must run :cool:

You're right, not all guys are horrible and I would feel bad if any of the guys here took any of this personally. But as they say, "all of the good ones are taken."

[Britt]

I feel like I'm sailing in some uncharted waters over here... haha but not all guys are horrible! Now, I must run :cool:

OMG! I sound like a jerk in this thread. lol but it can go both ways I am sure some guys have thought less of me a time or two.

[Brenda]

I'm sure they haven't thought less of you. We've all had our hearts broken & have broken some ourselves. Love (and lust) is crazy, but it is so worth it.

[chainsawtom]

I guessed that she would be married at least 12 times and it looks like she might make it. I had wondered at the time I made my feelings public if I was being too hard on her, but appeerently not.

Just don't blame yourself! Analyze if there was something you didn't take into consideration and trust your close family and friends advice. Check their empathy, honesty, fairness, common sense, moral code, etc. If you decide to be like our stereo type, beware being like this guy to the one who would be the love of your life.

You do deserve the best!

[Mealer]

I'd agree it goes both ways on here since ive dealt with cheating before... but I do think guys are worse most of the time

[Brenda]

Finally!! A man being honest!! They are a little worse. But, yeah--i've come across a few girls who aren't that nice.

[chainsawtom]

Finally!! A man being honest!! They are a little worse. But, yeah--i've come across a few girls who aren't that nice.

I didn't mean to say that this guy needs a break or that any girls rival his evilness, but I really do hope he meets my ex!:mad:

[Julie]

So he finally ended it "officially."

At the bar.

In front of everyone.

It wasn't loud or anything, just embarassing. I'd be a lot more angry if I wasn't so sad.

LOL @ me.

[Brenda]

OMG, girl. I'm sorry. You DO deserve way better than that. Sounds like a jerk. I know it's hard, but try not to let it get to you too much. Just think--he's just making it possible for someone even better to come into your life!!!
:)

[Julie]

OMG, girl. I'm sorry. You DO deserve way better than that. Sounds like a jerk. I know it's hard, but try not to let it get to you too much. Just think--he's just making it possible for someone even better to come into your life!!!
:)

I wish I could think of it that way. I'm totally not this kind of girl. Usually I'm able to just shrug and walk away. But for some reason, this is really bothering me.

[Brenda]

Totally understand & have been there!! Just cry girl-- sometimes, that's all you can do. And again, I'm so sorry!

[Julie]

Ughhh. I've only ever cried over a guy once, maaaaybe twice before. I feel so pathetic :-/

[Kimberly]

Don't feel pathetic. If anything, he should be the one feeling pathetic for ending it the way he did. I agree with Brenda, he's just opened up the door for someone better to come along.

Keep your chin up and remember, it's his loss, not yours.

[tobias]

Where is all this male hatred stemming from?

[Kimberly]

Honestly Tobias, I don't hate men. I just strongly dislike the ones who act like jerks. And yes, I know that can go for women too. But we just happen to be talking about men in this post.

[chainsawtom]

Originally Posted by Brenda
OMG, girl. I'm sorry. You DO deserve way better than that. Sounds like a jerk. I know it's hard, but try not to let it get to you too much. Just think--he's just making it possible for someone even better to come into your life!!!

I wish I could think of it that way. I'm totally not this kind of girl. Usually I'm able to just shrug and walk away. But for some reason, this is really bothering me.

Going by just how I felt was how I ended up with my ex and I wish I would have thought things thru early on before my feelings had me rationalizing away discrepencies about her past that God put there to warn me.


It hurts, but this guy is not the man of your dreams. It's going to keep on hurting no matter what I say, but this pain may save you from what I went thru. I do think Brenda is so right about who this will allow into your life. I passed up opportunities with normal women to have the sick relationship/ marriage I ended up having. I am just now getting really over it and that was 14 years ago.

Some people just suck and are bad for us!

[tobias]

Honestly Tobias, I don't hate men. I just strongly dislike the ones who act like jerks. And yes, I know that can go for women too. But we just happen to be talking about men in this post.

Gotcha!:)

[Julie]

Haha my life lately is hilarious.

I am doing a photoshoot right now...in a wedding dress.

Ironyyy.

[Ashley84]

Sorry Droolie, that sucks I've been there worst feeling ever:(

[kmem57]

there is no perfect guy but there is a guy that is perfect for you. Just need to leave this guy and take the knowledge that you have gained and use it for ur next relationship. Its hard but dont waste ur time and love u will find urs but in the meantime take advantage of the alone time and find u again all to often we lose ourself in a relationship.

[Britt]

there is no perfect guy but there is a guy that is perfect for you. Just need to leave this guy and take the knowledge that you have gained and use it for ur next relationship. Its hard but dont waste ur time and love u will find urs but in the meantime take advantage of the alone time and find u again all to often we lose ourself in a relationship.

haha this is coming from a girl who has been w/her husband for 10 YEARS!!!!!! (I know i am hatin' lol just a little jealous ;))

[tina_20233]

just enjoy life to the fullest and dont let any guy let your guard down cause some of them are douches but maybe one day youll find one thats right for you. ive dated like so many times and 30 out of all of them cheated on me so that day hasnt come for me yet.

[Jessica_1979]

And lest we forget for every Dick of a guy...there is some bitch of a gal...everyone gets whats coming to them...Karmas a bitch! :p

[Julie]

Funny story...

So my phone rings after 2am. Its the guy this entire post is about.

He said how he couldn't sleep and can't stop thinking about how much of an a-hole he was to me, and that he is sorry and I didn't deserve it.

I was just like nooo its ok, and told him that the way he acted helped me not like him anymore. Decent guys don't break up in public.

I'm pretty much over it at this point, and HE is losing sleep.

I feel like I won at life.

[tina_20233]

Good for you thats what ur suppost to do although i would have slapped himand drove away. atleast he apoligised and i also would have said that if he couldnt sleep he could call me and i would make him sleep. i am black belt in karate!! and i work out at the gym whenever i can like when im not going somewhere. i go 2 times a week regularly!!

[:::H8YL3Y:::]

Funny story...

So my phone rings after 2am. Its the guy this entire post is about.

He said how he couldn't sleep and can't stop thinking about how much of an a-hole he was to me, and that he is sorry and I didn't deserve it.

I was just like nooo its ok, and told him that the way he acted helped me not like him anymore. Decent guys don't break up in public.

I'm pretty much over it at this point, and HE is losing sleep.

I feel like I won at life.

His loss is your gain. You find a decent bloke and he'll be gutted he didn't treat u the way he should have done :)

[Kim]

I take it you started this thread before you met freecreditreport.com guy?

[Julie]

oh yes way before <3

[chainsawtom]

I take it you started this thread before you met freecreditreport.com guy?

or somebody who looks like him?

I am soooo happy you are doing better Julie, like I knew you would. :)

[Kim]

^^^^

that's the most interesting shit I've ever read.
Do you have a blog? maybe I could recommend it to people I hate.

[Draven]

I hate dudes as well they suck azzz :D

[Cory]

If he broke up via not talking anymore, he shouldn't be in a relationship anyway.

You're right, I used to do that in middle school (age like, 12?).

[Kim]

^^^^

that's the most interesting shit I've ever read.
Do you have a blog? maybe I could recommend it to people I hate.

There used to be a spam post there.
Just wanted to tell Chainsaw I wasn't referring to him in my post!
:eek:

[Rosemary]

Interesting old post. I remember how it use to be when I was single. Breaking up was so hard to do. It's easier before marriage then after. Better to check your man out really well in all ways. You need to have simular life stills, and believes, ethics, morals, and enjoy each other company. Money can be a real problem after your married if you don't check out how they spend it and how their credit is. Unless you are just friends, strickly, you should date only ones who you would consider marrying.
Emotions get carried away and sometimes one cares more for the other so you both need to know if you are free to date others. No one wants to end up divorced. Better to break up before getting married.

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